Are you living the life you were born to live?
if not, let’s do something about it!
Body
Do you love your body? Sadly, most people in our culture answer ‘no’ to this question.
Common reasons are emotional eating, unrealistic perfectionism, poor information about nutrition and most importantly, the underlying false belief that you are not good enough.
You’ve probably found out that Will Power alone doesn’t work. The good news is that underlying emotional blocks usually only take a single session of RTT to blast away!
Feeling great about your body again will give you a feeling of confidence and well-being that will extend across all life areas.
Mind
Are you living your life’s purpose? Does every day excite you with new possibilities?
In order to feel fully alive we need some challenge and stimulation in our lives.
Too many people underestimate what they are capable of. Sadly these limiting beliefs are often picked up at home or at school.
Sometimes there are blocks that stop you thinking clearly, and these often apply to the topic of money. Do you feel you deserve to be successful?
Where there are mental or emotional blocks in the way, I’d be delighted to help you clear them away!
Emotions and Relationships
Our society seems to be facing an epidemic of anxiety, broken and dysfunctional relationships, loneliness and depression.
If you are experiencing any of these, you are not alone. The important question is, what to do about it?
The good news is that you came into this world confident and ready for a rich emotional life and satisfying relationships.
If you have picked up false beliefs of scarcity or not being good enough – and most of us have – you now have a choice.
You can struggle on through life with an out of date emotional operating system, acquired randomly through your childhood and schooldays, or you can choose to install an emotional upgrade in line with who you were really born to be.
Spirit
Do you experience a sense of wonder every day? Do you feel that your life is purposeful?
If so, you can be said to be ‘in good spirits’. Spirit is connected to the whole of life, meaning all is well with your body, mind and emotions.
Swiss Psychologist Carl Jung noticed that many of the people who came to him in the second half of life had ‘sorted’ the usual life challenges of getting a job, raising a family etc but were troubled by questions of meaning and purpose. They were searching for meaning and what he later called individuation, a sense of wholeness about their lives.
In other words, are you living the life you were born to live? If not, let’s do something about it!
Hi I’m Peter
I work with people’s conscious and subconscious minds to help them bring about the changes they want in their lives.
If there are any blocks holding you back, I can help you remove them. It doesn’t matter how long they have been there. The process will probably be easier, quicker and gentler than you can imagine.
Emotions and beliefs from early in life have an incredible power in our lives. They go deep and they are very hard to change by the conscious mind or by will power.
However the subconscious mind knows how they came into your life. Working with your subconscious mind in a state of deep relaxation gives you a way to upgrade any limiting emotions or beliefs into empowering ones.
Your first step is to arrange a free, no obligation conversation with me so you can work out if this approach is right for you.
Removing Blocks
Blocks are anything that’s holding you back. Common ones are anxiety, depression, addictions, body and weight issues, and low self esteem. Worst of all, the belief that things can’t change. Typically, you have used all your reserves of will power and effort and yet the blocks remain.
In our garden we had a huge tulip tree that was sadly dying, and large branches fell off without warning. Sadly, it had to go. This also created an opportunity. The whole garden was steeply sloped. We wanted a level area to play games and host parties (and even weddings!)
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It was comparatively easy to cut down the tree and level the ground. However a huge tree stump remained, right in the middle. We thought of making a feature of it but no, it would block all our ideas for that area.
A friend with a small digger spent several hours trying to remove the stump, to no avail. We tried digging it out with spades and pickaxes but it would have taken us years.
An emotional block can seem like that tree stump. However much effort we put into trying to remove it was to no avail. We could have lived with that stump for decades before it would have finally rotted away.
Fortunately, though, a solution was at hand. We were introduced to Andy, a brilliant, one armed digger driver. He had the right tool for the job, and within 30 minutes the stump was out and on its way to the bottom of the garden, where it features in a stumpery.
I’ve been coaching for years, but only recently have I come across the therapeutic equivalent of Andy and his digger – Marisa Peer’s Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). Check her out on Youtube!
Marisa claims that underlying all the thousands of people whose lives she has changed for the better through her remarkable therapeutic skills and techniques, there are just three – yes only three – limiting beliefs that crop up again and again.
The reason I invested my time and money to train personally with her is that her methods offer the most rapid and powerful way to bring about change at this deep level.
The three beliefs are
- I’m not enough (good enough, worthy enough, loveable enough)
- Good things that others have are not available to me
- I’m different and can’t connect
Having negative underlying beliefs can lead to a whole range of emotional issues: feelings of depression or anxiety, a feeling of being disconnected from others, all kinds of addictions, problems in relationships.
Where these have persisted for a while it can feel like it is ‘just how life is’ but that is not the case: you were not born depressed, or anxious, or addicted. Often it takes just one session to remove the block for life.
When you have an RTT session with me I will put you in a deep state of relaxation and ask your subconscious mind how and when the block came into your life. If it has clearly served its purpose, you can then let it go forever. Occasionally the block is upgraded into something more useful (had it been somewhere else we could have turned the stump into a table).
Living Your Authentic Life
When you live your authentic life you experience overflowing wellness in body, mind, emotion and spirit. For some this will also involve high achievement and spectacular successes in business, sport or culture. But that is not necessarily your way.
Your path may be to become an amazing friend, parent, baker of cakes, gardener, member of a choir or orchestra, fixer of things. When others, however well-meaning, tell us how to live our lives it usually makes us feel bad.
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Our authentic life comes from inside us: it can’t come from the outside. Our life’s work is to listen and let it unfold.
If all you want me to do is remove a block out of your life I’m delighted with that. You are then free to work out your authentic life in your own way, and indeed you may already be far along that path.
However you may be aware that, in the busyness of life, you are being swept along by the current and your authentic life is far off. If so it won’t come by chance: it will need an investment of your time, focus and yes money.
You could possibly climb Mount Everest by yourself but it makes sense to have a guide who’s familiar with the terrain and knows what resources are needed. In the long run this will save you time and money (and improve your chances of reaching your destination!)
I offer combined RTT and Coaching packages to empower you to remove whatever is holding you back and create and live your authentic life. You can transform either a single life area over three months or become unstoppable and renew the whole of your life over the course of a year.
What does your authentic life look like for your body, mind, emotions and spirit?
Three Options for a Better Life
Removing a block with RTT
If you have a single issue, which you know is holding you back, a single RTT session is often enough.
Common issues are addictive or compulsive behaviours (alcohol, smoking, drugs, shopping, pornography etc): excessive weight or an eating disorder: feelings of low self esteem: mild anxiety, relationship or sexual problems.
For more complex conditions of depression, severe anxiety, PTSD and Anorexia I recommend a package of three sessions spread out over three months. This allows for lifestyle changes to take effect and for any related complications to be sorted out.
Live Your Authentic life: One Life Area
This is an intensive 12 week programme in which you will
- Evaluate the whole of your life to see what’s going well what not so well
- Identify one significant life area to focus one: this could be work; body and health; emotions and friendships; spiritual life and purpose; work life balance
- Have 5 sessions with me, one every three weeks, comprising 4X 90 minute coaching sessions and one RTT session (or 3X coaching and 2X RTT if required)
This powerful package provides enough time and input for you to make significant change in one key life area.
Most people find that the positive feelings of wellbeing and sense of empowerment inevitably spill over in other life areas, and that the effects last for years to come.
Live Your Authentic life: Becoming Unstoppable
Finding and living your authentic life involves the whole of life. In this powerful life changing 12 month package you will
- Evaluate the whole of your life and create a vision for the life you were born to lead
- Work on all life areas, starting with those that will have the greatest impact
- Say goodbye to limiting beliefs and behaviour patterns
- Have 12 sessions with me, one per month for a year, usually comprising 9X 90 minute coaching sessions and 3X RTT sessions
Are you ready to become unstoppable?
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